@T.R.O.Y. wrote: @karlypants wrote:You didn't need to post that. You could have just seen Sluffy's good deed for what it was without making something out of it and moved on.
That's my point though mate, it's not the 'good deed' he's framed it as. Lust shouldn't have been banned in the first place, all im doing is pointing that out.
Anyway, welcome back Lust!
I didn't frame it as a good deed though because it wasn't.
And yes Wanderlust most definitely should have been banned previously - and was - several times now - because neither I nor anyone else are here to be subjected to abuse, let alone over the length of time he continued to do so.
He was allowed back on the simple proviso that he packs it in and posts like the rest of us.
It's not gone without notice the little asides he's already made about expecting 'madness', 'uncle knobhead' and now 'holding the fort admirably'.
Early signs he will not be lasting long as its beginning to look as though he's not willing to change his behaviour to fit in with everyone else - which I seem to need to spell out would also include myself.
I've said for an awful long time now that the site has suffered because a certain one or two have put their selves ahead of the site and everyone else on it. It's been killing the site - maybe even has killed it - so I no longer need to tolerate it anymore as we may or may not be dead now but we definitely will be if it is allowed to continue unabated - there's nothing to be lost anymore by getting rid of the couple or so who decide to refuse to fit in with the rest of us left on here.
I don't need to remind people that tellingly we survived ok without Wanderlust (and Bread before that) when he had his latest 3 month break or so away from Nuts and I've no doubt we will do so again without him if need be. It was he who asked to return here - not the other way around.
Consider it the 'new normal' on here from now on, if you want to be part of Nuts then great but if you simply want Nuts for your platform to do whatever you please for your own amusement/self justification/vendettas, or whatever it is that makes you think you are somehow entitled to behave in the way you do to the detriment of the rest of us and the site, then you won't be lasting long on here anymore.
I really should not need to be asking grown men to simply behave reasonably - they/you should know that already.
Clearly one or two require a reminder though.