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Should NHS Be Funding Tranny Ops?

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41Should NHS Be Funding Tranny Ops? - Page 3 Empty Re: Should NHS Be Funding Tranny Ops? Tue Feb 23 2016, 19:13

luckyPeterpiper

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Ivan Campo
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This thread is interesting and the question not as simple as it appears to be. 

I would suggest that the NHS should prioritise the saving of lives and more money should be spent on things like A + E services rather than 'elective' surgeries such as gender reassignment BUT there are some cases where a man needs to be a woman so badly their lives do in fact depend on it. Where and how do you draw the line?

In my opinion for what it's worth I believe such people should be given therapy on the NHS in a bid to help them become comfortable in the body he/she already has but that actual surgery should not be funded by the taxpayer. I wish I knew enough about it to post more intelligently but I believe the NHS should stick to it's original mandate to provide necessary medical care to those who couldn't afford to go private. 

IVF is an issue I discussed with Wendy and others and I'll be unpopular for this but I believe it should NOT be funded by the NHS. There are thousands of children in care who desperately need a loving family and I feel those who can't conceive naturally should be encouraged to adopt. I don't hold with the mantra that people have a "right" to have children. My heart goes out to those who can't conceive but I believe they shouldn't be getting public money to do so when so many children are in such dire need already.

42Should NHS Be Funding Tranny Ops? - Page 3 Empty Re: Should NHS Be Funding Tranny Ops? Tue Feb 23 2016, 19:17

karlypants

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Nat Lofthouse
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boltonbonce wrote:Man has penis stolen in his sleep.

Couldn't read any more. Razz
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43Should NHS Be Funding Tranny Ops? - Page 3 Empty Re: Should NHS Be Funding Tranny Ops? Tue Feb 23 2016, 19:23

Mr Magoo

Mr Magoo
Youri Djorkaeff
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Maybe that was Nat.

44Should NHS Be Funding Tranny Ops? - Page 3 Empty Re: Should NHS Be Funding Tranny Ops? Tue Feb 23 2016, 19:26

Natasha Whittam

Natasha Whittam
Nat Lofthouse
Nat Lofthouse

luckyPeterpiper wrote:This thread is interesting and the question not as simple as it appears to be. 

I would suggest that the NHS should prioritise the saving of lives and more money should be spent on things like A + E services rather than 'elective' surgeries such as gender reassignment BUT there are some cases where a man needs to be a woman so badly their lives do in fact depend on it. Where and how do you draw the line?

In my opinion for what it's worth I believe such people should be given therapy on the NHS in a bid to help them become comfortable in the body he/she already has but that actual surgery should not be funded by the taxpayer. I wish I knew enough about it to post more intelligently but I believe the NHS should stick to it's original mandate to provide necessary medical care to those who couldn't afford to go private. 

IVF is an issue I discussed with Wendy and others and I'll be unpopular for this but I believe it should NOT be funded by the NHS. There are thousands of children in care who desperately need a loving family and I feel those who can't conceive naturally should be encouraged to adopt. I don't hold with the mantra that people have a "right" to have children. My heart goes out to those who can't conceive but I believe they shouldn't be getting public money to do so when so many children are in such dire need already.

Probably your finest ever post. Agree with everything.

Imagine arriving at A&E to be told there's no room, when David (now Davina) is in the next room having a vagina made from his old penis.

45Should NHS Be Funding Tranny Ops? - Page 3 Empty Re: Should NHS Be Funding Tranny Ops? Tue Feb 23 2016, 19:49

Fabians Right Peg

Fabians Right Peg
Andy Walker
Andy Walker

luckyPeterpiper wrote:This thread is interesting and the question not as simple as it appears to be. 

I would suggest that the NHS should prioritise the saving of lives and more money should be spent on things like A + E services rather than 'elective' surgeries such as gender reassignment BUT there are some cases where a man needs to be a woman so badly their lives do in fact depend on it. Where and how do you draw the line?

In my opinion for what it's worth I believe such people should be given therapy on the NHS in a bid to help them become comfortable in the body he/she already has but that actual surgery should not be funded by the taxpayer. I wish I knew enough about it to post more intelligently but I believe the NHS should stick to it's original mandate to provide necessary medical care to those who couldn't afford to go private. 

IVF is an issue I discussed with Wendy and others and I'll be unpopular for this but I believe it should NOT be funded by the NHS. There are thousands of children in care who desperately need a loving family and I feel those who can't conceive naturally should be encouraged to adopt. I don't hold with the mantra that people have a "right" to have children. My heart goes out to those who can't conceive but I believe they shouldn't be getting public money to do so when so many children are in such dire need already.


Think that Bevin's idea of a NHS was based on three core principles, being that it meets the needs of everyone, that it is free at the point of delivery and that it is based on clinical need, not ability to pay.

The Economic reality of achieving the first has meant that people and government have begun to focus on the first half of the third principle whilst trying to ignore the second half of the same which will lead to a two tier system in the end, with those who can afford expensive treatments being able to pay for them.

46Should NHS Be Funding Tranny Ops? - Page 3 Empty Re: Should NHS Be Funding Tranny Ops? Tue Feb 23 2016, 19:54

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Couple of quick questions now, Pete:

When you inherited Wendy's kids and integrated them into your new family, did you feel an immediate bond with them?

If you're completely honest with yourself, do you love them in the same way and as much as the ones you fathered yourself?

I'd hazard a guess that you don't, despite how much you tell yourself you do.

If someone was holding a gun to the heads of one of Wendy's and one of yours and you had to pick which one copped it, could you make an unbiased decision?

I'd guess not, again despite what you try and tell yourself.

The point I'm trying to make is that children aren't puppies and to suggest that childless couples should just pop down to the local orphanage and pick one is a bit crass in my view.

And unused fertilized eggs from IVF treatment are often donated for stem cell research, so there is pay back into the NHS.

Pay back which could conceivably help to save lives.

47Should NHS Be Funding Tranny Ops? - Page 3 Empty Re: Should NHS Be Funding Tranny Ops? Tue Feb 23 2016, 19:59

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Breadman wrote:Couple of quick questions now, Pete:

When you inherited Wendy's kids and integrated them into your new family, did you feel an immediate bond with them?

If you're completely honest with yourself, do you love them in the same way and as much as the ones you fathered yourself?

I'd hazard a guess that you don't, despite how much you tell yourself you do.

If someone was holding a gun to the heads of one of Wendy's and one of yours and you had to pick which one copped it, could you make an unbiased decision?

I'd guess not, again despite what you try and tell yourself.

The point I'm trying to make is that children aren't puppies and to suggest that childless couples should just pop down to the local orphanage and pick one is a bit crass in my view.

And unused fertilized eggs from IVF treatment are often donated for stem cell research, so there is pay back into the NHS.

Pay back which could conceivably help to save lives.


Fook me breaders. Bit much that. Could you have not said imagine all the kids are vegan and someone is holding a rasher of crisp smoked back bacon to their mouth.

48Should NHS Be Funding Tranny Ops? - Page 3 Empty Re: Should NHS Be Funding Tranny Ops? Tue Feb 23 2016, 20:11

luckyPeterpiper

luckyPeterpiper
Ivan Campo
Ivan Campo

Breadman wrote:Couple of quick questions now, Pete:

When you inherited Wendy's kids and integrated them into your new family, did you feel an immediate bond with them?

If you're completely honest with yourself, do you love them in the same way and as much as the ones you fathered yourself?

I'd hazard a guess that you don't, despite how much you tell yourself you do.

If someone was holding a gun to the heads of one of Wendy's and one of yours and you had to pick which one copped it, could you make an unbiased decision?

I'd guess not, again despite what you try and tell yourself.

The point I'm trying to make is that children aren't puppies and to suggest that childless couples should just pop down to the local orphanage and pick one is a bit crass in my view.

And unused fertilized eggs from IVF treatment are often donated for stem cell research, so there is pay back into the NHS.

Pay back which could conceivably help to save lives.

I am adopted myself which I admit colours my thinking on this. 

As to Wendy's children, I've known the girls almost all their lives but no I don't have the same bond because they were 17 and 14 when Wendy and I got together but I love them both and would certainly die for them if need be. I don't suggest children are like puppies but there are literally thousands of very young children from newborn up who desperately need parents and I believe such kids could and should be matched to parents who can't have there own first. A parental bond is not dependent on who's sperm fertilised which egg imo. It's down to time spent together not DNA. 

I agree that unfertilised/unused eggs can be a valuable resource for stem cell research but that by itself doesn't (imo) justify funding IVF on the NHS. Besides the NHS was never intended to be a research and development entity, it was intended to deal with immediate and critical medical needs for those people who cannot afford private care.

It's my opinion that your post shows a deep misunderstanding that is commonly held about what the NHS was meant to be and should be now. The NHS like the Welfare State was intended to be a safety net for those who could not help themselves. It was never meant to have a blank cheque to fund projects that distracted from that core aim and I believe that this is a large part of the reason why that institution is struggling so badly now. Certainly the conservative party are handling it badly but I honestly think it's doing things it shouldn't be and involved in areas that it was never intended for.

49Should NHS Be Funding Tranny Ops? - Page 3 Empty Re: Should NHS Be Funding Tranny Ops? Tue Feb 23 2016, 20:29

bwfc71

bwfc71
Ivan Campo
Ivan Campo

Natasha Whittam wrote:
luckyPeterpiper wrote:This thread is interesting and the question not as simple as it appears to be. 

I would suggest that the NHS should prioritise the saving of lives and more money should be spent on things like A + E services rather than 'elective' surgeries such as gender reassignment BUT there are some cases where a man needs to be a woman so badly their lives do in fact depend on it. Where and how do you draw the line?

In my opinion for what it's worth I believe such people should be given therapy on the NHS in a bid to help them become comfortable in the body he/she already has but that actual surgery should not be funded by the taxpayer. I wish I knew enough about it to post more intelligently but I believe the NHS should stick to it's original mandate to provide necessary medical care to those who couldn't afford to go private. 

IVF is an issue I discussed with Wendy and others and I'll be unpopular for this but I believe it should NOT be funded by the NHS. There are thousands of children in care who desperately need a loving family and I feel those who can't conceive naturally should be encouraged to adopt. I don't hold with the mantra that people have a "right" to have children. My heart goes out to those who can't conceive but I believe they shouldn't be getting public money to do so when so many children are in such dire need already.

Probably your finest ever post. Agree with everything.

Imagine arriving at A&E to be told there's no room, when David (now Davina) is in the next room having a vagina made from his old penis.

Except that there are only 3 surgeons in the country that carry out the procedure - one of them, based at Jimmy's in Leeds, is out in foreign parts for best part of 6 months and the other two - one works at Charing Cross and the other works in Brighton - both facilities are Private facilities, operated by Nuffield Health.  Therefore it is not possible to be turned away at A&E due to a Transgender procedure in the next room!

50Should NHS Be Funding Tranny Ops? - Page 3 Empty Re: Should NHS Be Funding Tranny Ops? Tue Feb 23 2016, 20:32

Natasha Whittam

Natasha Whittam
Nat Lofthouse
Nat Lofthouse

bwfc71 wrote:

Except that there are only 3 surgeons in the country that carry out the procedure - one of them, based at Jimmy's in Leeds, is out in foreign parts for best part of 6 months and the other two - one works at Charing Cross and the other works in Brighton - both facilities are Private facilities, operated by Nuffield Health.  Therefore it is not possible to be turned away at A&E due to a Transgender procedure in the next room!

Please don't spoil my argument with facts.

51Should NHS Be Funding Tranny Ops? - Page 3 Empty Re: Should NHS Be Funding Tranny Ops? Tue Feb 23 2016, 20:32

Natasha Whittam

Natasha Whittam
Nat Lofthouse
Nat Lofthouse

So Mr Amos, should these ops be available on the NHS?

52Should NHS Be Funding Tranny Ops? - Page 3 Empty Re: Should NHS Be Funding Tranny Ops? Tue Feb 23 2016, 20:43

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Foreign parts....

Fantastic choice of phrase.

Very apposite.

53Should NHS Be Funding Tranny Ops? - Page 3 Empty Re: Should NHS Be Funding Tranny Ops? Tue Feb 23 2016, 20:57

bwfc71

bwfc71
Ivan Campo
Ivan Campo

Natasha Whittam wrote:So Mr Amos, should these ops be available on the NHS?

To be honest it should be based on individual needs/requirements.

As someone else said earlier it isn't a life choice for some but actual difference between life and death as it does mess with the brains and some do contemplate suicide (and do it) because they are in the wrong body.

But, again, like someone else said its all about therapy, to begin with, to find out who is most at danger or most requires it to be the person they should be, rather than just go and get it.  (prevention rather than wiping up the pieces after)

For many they stop at the therapy stage, other continue where they have to live as the other sex for almost 3 years before surgery can be even looked at and during this time therapy is rigorously undertaken to see whether the person is doing the right thing or not.

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55Should NHS Be Funding Tranny Ops? - Page 3 Empty Re: Should NHS Be Funding Tranny Ops? Wed Feb 24 2016, 18:34

Soul Kitchen

Soul Kitchen
Ivan Campo
Ivan Campo

I know a woman who struggled to have children and finished up having a heptopic pregnancy or whatever. She was offered a course of IVF and finished up having twins. This was 20 odd years ago, perhaps she and her husband should have adopted?
I know what I'd have done if that had happened to my wife and me.

56Should NHS Be Funding Tranny Ops? - Page 3 Empty Re: Should NHS Be Funding Tranny Ops? Wed Feb 24 2016, 20:42

Reebok Trotter

Reebok Trotter
Nat Lofthouse
Nat Lofthouse

Soul Kitchen wrote:I know a woman who struggled to have children and finished up having a heptopic pregnancy or whatever. She was offered a course of IVF and finished up having twins. This was 20 odd years ago, perhaps she and her husband should have adopted?
I know what I'd have done if that had happened to my wife and me.

Same thing happened to a mate of mine. They couldn't have kids and after she had IVF treatment she ended up with twin boys.

57Should NHS Be Funding Tranny Ops? - Page 3 Empty Re: Should NHS Be Funding Tranny Ops? Thu Feb 25 2016, 18:31

Reebok Trotter

Reebok Trotter
Nat Lofthouse
Nat Lofthouse

For my 20,000th post I thought I would relate a tale relating to this the topic of this thread. I may have mentioned this before and if so, I apologise for the early onset of Oldtimers disease.

In the eighties, I bought a semi in Manchester which wasn't overlooked. It just had farm fields across the road. After a few weeks I got talking to my next door neighbours who consisted of a husband and wife in their forties with two teenage children. My neighbour was called Colin and was a white collar worker at Massey Ferguson in Trafford Park. I also worked for a big firm in Trafford Park so we had a wee bit in common although I had no kids at that time. It transpired that Colin leased all the farmland opposite from Manchester Ship canal authority and he had stables which he rented out for additional income. You couldn't have wished for nicer neighbours and although we were not all that close we would always have a chat and pass the time of day and occasionally help one another out with one thing or another. He had a tractor and a trailer and also a portable lawn mower which he used to mow the lawns at the local schools in the area. After my son was born and was growing up, Colin would take him for a ride on his tractor as he was pottering about his farm. My only criticism of Colin was that he was a somewhat of a frugal disposition. The type of person who can peel an orange in their pocket. He would of made a great farmer.

Anyway, one night I am sat in the kitchen having my tea and Colin knocks on the door. My wife answered the door and then disappeared next door. Nothing unusual in that, she would often have a chat with Colin's wife. But.... on this occasion she was gone for nearly two hours. When she returned she dropped the bombshell that Colin had been living a double life and ever since he was a child he had wished he was a woman. He had been receiving counselling and now that both his kids had left home and married, he was going to live for twelve months as a woman before having breast augmentation and his wedding tackle removed! You could have knocked me down with a salami sausage on hearing the news. He told my wife that from now on he was going to be known as Anna and we should all call him Anna from now on. . Now this peed me off somewhat. Why couldn't he just have called himself Colleen? That way, I could still refer to him as Col, which was what I called him. 
My son was about eight at the time and ANNA suggested that we just tell him that Colin had left home and his sister Anna had moved in next door!

A couple of weeks later I'm coming up my driveway with my lad in tow and Anna is in the front garden in a dress and a pair of fetching court shoes. My lad spots him and says, ' Look Dad, Colin is wearing a dress!' 

I say, ' That's not Colin! It's his sister Anna!'

He replies, ' No it's not, it's Colin. And he's wearing a wig!.  ( Out of the mouths of babes! )

Well there were some fun and games after that, I can tell you.  I'm quite a tolerant individual but I simply couldn't come to terms with Colin and his transformation. I just used to say hello and then disappear indoors whenever our paths crossed. I wasn't being rude or impolite but I just felt uncomfortable subconsciously whenever I saw him.

He was made redundant from Massey Ferguson and is now a full blown woman. He had a face lift and boob job in Poland and he had his knackers and plums removed in Thailand. The treatment was part funded by the NHS but he paid for the bulk of it. He met his new partner in Thailand. A bloke from Luton who ran a garage and when his wife died of cancer he decided he wanted to be a woman as well. They now both live together in a council bungalow and I often see them out and about shopping. They look for all the world like an older version of Hinge and Bracket.

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