boltonbonce wrote:I understand the frustration of xmiles, okocha, and , to some degree, Nat.
It was suggested on more than one occasion that Bonce and Breadman were one and the same. I let it go, and nothing came of it. But had it been constantly referred to, as is the case with the accounts in question, I'd have felt very hard done by, and would probably have thrown it all in. Question my sanity by all means, but I won't have my integrity questioned.
I'm pretty sure okocha and xmiles feel the same way. Whoever they are in the real world, they've only added to the site, and I can only applaud their patience.
We're becoming 'the story'. And that can only end one way.
Thanks for your helpful input, Bonce. My job requires me to be patient, strong and understanding, so I have always been willing to seek peace but, like you, I will not have my integrity questioned. I have been perfectly reasonable and polite despite the gross, unfair allegations.
The way it's beginning to work out, I can see that Sluffy has been misled/duped, so if he will accept that he has been wronged by a fellow founder of the site, I'm perfectly happy to sympathise and move on.
I post on the BBC website and on facebook occasionally to keep in touch with friends and family. They are all wonderful people and we share a mutual trust that has recently been lacking on here, making me sad, though not for myself, but for those who prejudge or sneer......you know who I mean.
The main perpetrator remains unmoved by his guilt, instead opting temporarily to try to escape universal condemnation by requesting that all previous posts be deleted. He has returned. I await Sluffy's response.