Norpig wrote: Sluffy wrote:It really doesn't help in any way.
You bang on about wanting to end all this and when I spell out to you what the problem actually is and how easily it can be resolved - you don't want to know.
I'll tell you what would help, you waking up to the fact that you have a massive problem with Lusty and will pull him up on every single thing he posts. He then reacts as he knows how to push your buttons and the cycle just goes round and round until you ban him. Soon as he comes back it all starts again.
Just ignore him for Gods sake!
I don't have any problem with anyone - particularly a random bloke on social media.
I've explained what the circle is - namely he has issues that manifest in him having an obsession with me - and I just retaliate by ripping the piss out of him for his hatred and stupidity and factual incorrect bollocks on what he posts.
Yes the cycle needs to be broken but as I'm not the instigator then it isn't going to stop if I did simply ignore him would it - as he still would post his hatred, stupidity and factual incorrect bollocks wouldn't he?
If I can keep my side of the fence it's not asking much for him to keep to his side is it?
I also know full well what buttons to push to get under Wanderlust's skin - hence his abuse and obsessiveness with me - but I'm willing to stop it on the understanding that he does too.
Isn't that fair and reasonable?
Up to now - and how long as it been since Karly returned and I gave my pledge to pack it in - he hasn't - nor do I believe in all honesty that he can do.
The pressure should be put on stopping Wanderlusts inability to accept that he's in anyway wrong rather than telling me to ignore him all of the time.
He's the one with a obsessive bee in his bonnet - I just ridicule him for it.
It's not all my fault - and until people start to call Wanderlust out (I'm not the one who ranted, abused and carried this latest thing on) then it isn't going to stop is it?
You and no doubt Cajun see me to be the problem and me that should be the one to pay a forfeit of being told it's all my fault because I don't ignore him and his abuse.
It would have been good if you, Cajun or anyone else had stepped in and said to Wanderlust something like - pack it in, there was absolutely no need for the abuse and claiming you can post what you want then pretend you didn't mean it to be taken seriously is frankly ridiculous!
But you, Cajun or anyone else didn't did you.
And that won't make the problem come to an end any time soon will it?
The answer is to call out Wanderlust and not me all the time - as it only encourages him to continue doing what he does as he doesn't see himself to be doing anything in his behaviour to be wrong at all.
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