Fun and games

I'm being serious now ,would your wife do a threesome with one of her friends or would she do it the other way round or would she put on a girly show for you or would you be in big shit for suggesting it?

going through a sticky patch in your marriage AD?

Hipster_Nebula wrote:going through a sticky patch in your marriage AD?

No quite the opposite thing's got interesting a few day's ago.

Angry Dad wrote:

Hipster_Nebula wrote:going through a sticky patch in your marriage AD?

No quite the opposite thing's got interesting a few day's ago.

Tell the story then, and then we could give you our opinion.

Angry Dad wrote:No quite the opposite thing's got interesting a few day's ago.

She brought another man home didn't she, and it left you feeling inadequate.

Story short,the wife and her best friend had a lunchtime bottle of wine each at our place, i am on very friendly terms with her anyway. They started teasing me with girly stuff which got quite hot then they seemed to run out of idea's and i got involved and ended up with my head between the friend's legs. Doesn't seem to be any aftershock so i'm wondering what's next if anything.

There's no aftershock because you're talking shit.

Angry Dad wrote: Story short,the wife and her best friend had a lunchtime bottle of wine each at our place, i am on very friendly terms with her anyway. They started teasing me with girly stuff which got quite hot then they seemed to run out of idea's and i got involved and ended up with my head between the friend's legs. Doesn't seem to be any aftershock so i'm wondering what's next if anything.

Seriously, buy them lots of wine the next time they are at your house... and just wait.

She now has a good reason to file for divorce.

I think you were set up and your wife is going to take you for everything you own.

And then move in with her new lesbian lover.

No chance of that.

Angry Dad wrote:No chance of that.

Why, because you don't own anything?

What's she do when your not there, is the question.

Is her lesbian lover fit?

She might of wanted proof, that you don't know how to lick a pussy.

It is wrong in my opinion. Would never do anything like that myself.

Why is it wrong?

Be careful. In my experience, there are plenty of women who are up for a bit of variety, but not so many into sharing their bloke when it comes down to it. It's been 20 years since my last threesome (which didn't involve current missus) and although some of our female friends flirt a lot, I'd be fearing a Bobbit job if I proposed taking it any further. If you're fond of your tackle, draw the line, ideally with missus present as it will impress her - or at least put the decision in her hands.

Because a relationship is between 2 people, 3 is a crowd as the saying goes. I wouldn't like it if my partner did stuff with someone me been there or not, It would make me insecure for the rest of our time together, wondering if it happens when I'm not there and I wouldn't want my partner to feel the same. If you need other people to spice up your sex life, then you must have a pretty shit relationship. If you are with someone you both should be enough for each other, it shouldn't take anyone else to satisfy either of your needs. I've only slept with one person ever, and I never rushed into having sex. I've always waited until I felt I'm with the right person and I wouldn't mind if I only ever slept with her for the rest of my life.

If they're both up for it there's nothing wrong with it imo. Just because you've only had one partner it doesn't mean everyone has to be like you.

Personally if I was married or in a long term relationship with someone I doubt I'd be up for it. But if it's just a couple of random slags I'd be straight in there.

I was banging two randomers once and one of their boyfriends turned up. Threatened to kill all three of us and trashed the house. Was ace.

Bernard Dennis Park wrote:If they're both up for it there's nothing wrong with it imo. Just because you've only had one partner it doesn't mean everyone has to be like you.

Personally if I was married or in a long term relationship with someone I doubt I'd be up for it. But if it's just a couple of random slags I'd be straight in there.

I was banging two randomers once and one of their boyfriends turned up. Threatened to kill all three of us and trashed the house. Was ace.

Of course there is, whats to say his wife now won't be really insecure because of it. It could have been a test, you never know. At the end of the day, if you want to put it around don't be in a relationship, end of. Relationships are for two people who are commited to one another, and neither should sleep about even if the other is ok with it.

That's what you want for yourself.

Don't speak for others.

Especially when you're very inexperienced on this matter.

You could be right though.