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wanderlust
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41I have a big problem. - Page 3 Empty Re: I have a big problem. Thu Jun 05 2014, 23:21

Angry Dad

Angry Dad
Youri Djorkaeff
Youri Djorkaeff

Keegan wrote:If my math is correct, I'd quite probably hit it quietly and at that glorious moment I'd shout out "Nuts!" on behalf of you poor sods that don't get that opportunity.
How good is your math keegs.

42I have a big problem. - Page 3 Empty Re: I have a big problem. Thu Jun 05 2014, 23:22

Keegan

Keegan
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I'm thinking there may be fireworks involved, AD.

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43I have a big problem. - Page 3 Empty Re: I have a big problem. Thu Jun 05 2014, 23:23

Angry Dad

Angry Dad
Youri Djorkaeff
Youri Djorkaeff

My dad had an affair with a woman in preston was it your mum nat? I saw them at Preston bus station when I was a kid.

44I have a big problem. - Page 3 Empty Re: I have a big problem. Thu Jun 05 2014, 23:32

Angry Dad

Angry Dad
Youri Djorkaeff
Youri Djorkaeff

Keegan wrote:I'm thinking there may be fireworks involved, AD.
Good at maths then I've been invited to Santa Barbara for a break.

45I have a big problem. - Page 3 Empty Re: I have a big problem. Fri Jun 06 2014, 00:57

Bolton Nuts


Admin

Fine... Send her to me. I will do it.

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46I have a big problem. - Page 3 Empty Re: I have a big problem. Fri Jun 06 2014, 03:44

Keegan

Keegan
Admin

Santa Barbara sounds like it could be fun...

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47I have a big problem. - Page 3 Empty Re: I have a big problem. Fri Jun 06 2014, 08:53

Soul Kitchen

Soul Kitchen
Ivan Campo
Ivan Campo

This sounds very much like a soap scenario. Have you been writing scripts for 'Corrie' AD?

48I have a big problem. - Page 3 Empty Re: I have a big problem. Fri Jun 06 2014, 09:46

wanderlust

wanderlust
Nat Lofthouse
Nat Lofthouse

I don't know if this is a wind up or not but I'll bite anyway.

As the old saying goes: "Be good. If you can't be good, don't get caught."

I write this because all this hinges on getting caught or not and whether your guilt would ruin the experience or not. Infidelity is natural and it's a how our ancestors survived and evolved as a species. We (both male and female) are programmed to check out mating opportunities.

You've already been mentally unfaithful to your wife by thinking about going with this woman and there's minimal blame in that because it's what people do - just a normal human trait.

You already know that an affair (if discovered) would mess up your relationship with your wife and possibly your kids.

You are weighing up whether or not it would be worth it - without knowing what this woman is really about. 

I've had experience of this. What happened was the sex and flirting with the young woman was fun but after a while I was worrying about getting caught/what knowing would do to my family. The worry gradually eroded the fun. After a while it was just about the sex. 
When I'd had affairs in the past I'd ended it at this stage. I'm not a person to pass up good sex when the opportunity arises but it invariably got to the point when the stress of the liaison took the shine off the relationship. And ending an affair can be a very tricky thing in itself depending on the maturity of the woman involved and how attached she had become (I have a tendency to attract nutters).
However on this (last) occasion I didn't end it and eventually we were discovered - sort of - it was all circumstantial, but was enough to convince the wife. 
It took a year of doghouse to get us back on track and even now there will always be that doubt at the back of her mind which is something I deeply regret.

There is an outside possibility that the object of your desire turns out to be perfect for you in every way but you've no way of knowing that so you would be risking everything.

There is another dimension to consider and that is age. If the woman is substantially younger than you there's a risk she is attracted to you for your "experience" (as opposed to your charm and looks as you'd like to believe) and you have a responsibility towards her. Some younger women are open to relationships with/attracted to older men and TBH they are easy to impress (knowledge/life experience/sex experience etc.) In the past I've had to consider their longer-term future i.e. where will we be in 10 or twenty years time?

In your position I'd like to think that my brain rules my dick and would try to find out a lot more about what she's like as a person - and what she wants out of it - before even contemplating risking what appears to be a stable marriage to someone who loves you enough to put up with your shite.

49I have a big problem. - Page 3 Empty Re: I have a big problem. Fri Jun 06 2014, 10:06

Guest


Guest

I think it's definitely not a wind-up.

I think it's eminently plausible that international superstar and former squeeze of everybody's favourite celebrity smack-head Russell Brand, Katy Perry, may well be trying to get into AD's keks.

Why wouldn't she.....?

50I have a big problem. - Page 3 Empty Re: I have a big problem. Fri Jun 06 2014, 10:32

Angry Dad

Angry Dad
Youri Djorkaeff
Youri Djorkaeff

Some sensible advice from wander,I have been thinking all night and I'm tempted to go under the pretext of a job but it would get out at some point and then what I will see what the phone brings.

51I have a big problem. - Page 3 Empty Re: I have a big problem. Fri Jun 06 2014, 11:00

wanderlust

wanderlust
Nat Lofthouse
Nat Lofthouse

Breadman wrote:I think it's definitely not a wind-up.

I think it's eminently plausible that international superstar and former squeeze of everybody's favourite celebrity smack-head Russell Brand, Katy Perry, may well be trying to get into AD's keks.

Why wouldn't she.....?
I don't think AD is referring to KP as he mentioned "getting over a divorce" and it's been 2 years since she was divorced.
AD - if it is KP stay well clear. Any person still struggling to get over a divorce that happened 2 years ago has some serious baggage!

52I have a big problem. - Page 3 Empty Re: I have a big problem. Fri Jun 06 2014, 11:36

Angry Dad

Angry Dad
Youri Djorkaeff
Youri Djorkaeff

Decided to grow up and appreciate what I have wander.

53I have a big problem. - Page 3 Empty Re: I have a big problem. Fri Jun 06 2014, 12:11

wanderlust

wanderlust
Nat Lofthouse
Nat Lofthouse

Angry Dad wrote:Decided to grow up and appreciate what I have wander.

I bet you get hot for the missus now - it's a natural reaction. You'll be pleasuring her senseless for the next few weeks and she'll wonder why you are so affectionate all of a sudden.  Very Happy

54I have a big problem. - Page 3 Empty Re: I have a big problem. Fri Jun 06 2014, 12:34

Guest


Guest

wanderlust wrote:


AD - if it is KP stay well clear. 

Agreed.

He's a dirty little shit who had sex behind Bargain Booze with a slapper.

He could have anything......

55I have a big problem. - Page 3 Empty Re: I have a big problem. Fri Jun 06 2014, 17:04

Keegan

Keegan
Admin

Breadman wrote:I think it's definitely not a wind-up.

I think it's eminently plausible that international superstar and former squeeze of everybody's favourite celebrity smack-head Russell Brand, Katy Perry, may well be trying to get into AD's keks.

Why wouldn't she.....?
I knew you were bright...

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56I have a big problem. - Page 3 Empty Re: I have a big problem. Fri Jun 06 2014, 17:20

Natasha Whittam

Natasha Whittam
Nat Lofthouse
Nat Lofthouse

wanderlust wrote:
When I'd had affairs in the past I'd ended it at this stage. I'm not a person to pass up good sex when the opportunity arises but it invariably got to the point when the stress of the liaison took the shine off the relationship. And ending an affair can be a very tricky thing in itself depending on the maturity of the woman involved and how attached she had become (I have a tendency to attract nutters).
However on this (last) occasion I didn't end it and eventually we were discovered - sort of - it was all circumstantial, but was enough to convince the wife. 
It took a year of doghouse to get us back on track and even now there will always be that doubt at the back of her mind which is something I deeply regret.

Sickening post. Your wife can't have much self respect if she took you back.

57I have a big problem. - Page 3 Empty Re: I have a big problem. Fri Jun 06 2014, 17:21

Alf Hooker


David Lee
David Lee

Does this mean AD's missus is fair game on the milf thread?? get a piccy posted AD.

58I have a big problem. - Page 3 Empty Re: I have a big problem. Fri Jun 06 2014, 21:58

mark leach

mark leach
Andy Walker
Andy Walker

Is it Rihanna?

59I have a big problem. - Page 3 Empty Re: I have a big problem. Fri Jun 06 2014, 23:09

White84


Andy Walker
Andy Walker

More mr Jetset lifestyle bullshit,stunner your supporting her as she's a nail technician in her own shop.How old are you.Harder than Bruce Lee on steroids,catches bullets with his teeth,even gets the stunners.Shes got baggage a sprog it's your Kryptonite.Its a bird it's a plane it's a BULLSHITTER it's Angry DaD.What you angry about you live a jet set lifestyle you get the girls your harder than iron. Jackanory what a story lol! ::mad:: 

60I have a big problem. - Page 3 Empty Re: I have a big problem. Fri Jun 06 2014, 23:11

White84


Andy Walker
Andy Walker

Unique shit from a no mark.

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