largehat wrote:Look Sluffy, I don't want another forum 'punch up' with you, I just think you've got me wrong. I don't take everything mega seriously, I just enjoy debating with people and usually think I'm right. I give people some stick and I take some stick. That's just the way I am. Others think I contribute a lot to the forum, I'm obviously not your cup of tea, and that's fair enough. But you do seem to take it personally when I disagree with you, and it's not. It's just a way to pass the time and engage with other people for me.
I'm one of those who do think you add a great deal to the forum - I've told you in the past but you don't seem to think I meant it I guess.
God, I don't take anything personally on the internet, I've got idiots like that bloke buying up our .com domain trying to screw me over and all I can do is laugh at how small and pathetic he must be in real life to act like that on the internet, Jesus I thought my life was empty, what must his be like!?
I mess around on the footy forums because sometimes I have a lot of free time on my hands and generally I like the camaraderie of fellow Wanderers fans - I don't know maybe its because we all have the club in common and the older ones have shared the same experiences that I have - but that’s not to say there’s more than a fair amount of dickheads around as well.
By enlarge I've had some great laughs on the forums over the years, I've got a bit of a sense of humour myself but I know I can't do the humorous stuff on the internet like some can, so I don't try.
I think we had things going extremely well on Burnden Aces at one time but obviously Manny thought different - that's why we are chatting on here now and not there.
I like the Wanderers, I like the fun that we sometimes manage to create and that's really all that I'm about.
I'm not bothered about anything else, the abuse doesn't worry me, I try to keep everybody on-side with each other and I don't really have the big ego to say 'hey look at me, look at me' all the time.
I don't even take the football too seriously - but I an irked that we got relegated not because the team was necessarily bad but because the manager was incompetent in his job. But what the hell it's only a game.
I can't get too hung up and the club either - some people seem to think it owes them something because they've spent the better parts of their lives and income following them up and down the country - but they can't see that the club is a business and they are only customers. Do Tesco’s owe me for shopping with them for the last 40 odd years - of course not - nor the club owe them either.
So if I'm here for the laughs and to have a chat about the club that I follow - but not slavishly like others - then what makes you think I'm overly upset when someone disagrees with me or not?
A good forum as far as I'm concerned needs all sorts of views and opinion from all sides to make it a compelling read. A little bit of argument, irritation and disagreement gives it an edge and gets people coming back for more. I don't have any problem with you, I think truth be told it is more the other way around but that's ok, I know I'm not everyone’s cup of tea, nor would I want to be.
Your a very good poster, I'm not going to always agree with everything you say, nor you me but I certainly have not got any got issues with you at all.
Hope this helps to clear things up a bit.