Norpig wrote:I imagine setting up, running and moddng on a forum can be a lot of work and a pain in the arse at times. That's not something you do if you just watch football to pass a couple of hours and can take it or leave it.
I'm not as bad as i used to be when we lost. maybe the last few years have made me conditioned to failure but when i was younger it did affect my mood a lot more than it does now.
As i said i'm not arguing with you but you do seem to downplay your love of football but that's up to you.
I guess we are all different in our own little ways.
The reason I got involved in forums in the first place was to 'give something back'.
What I mean is that I used to view the early forums to read the news and the gossip and people's comments on the games they saw but realised I was 'giving nothing back' in return.
I decided to write little threads on our next opponents, players who had played for us and them, previous matches between our clubs and stuff like that and found that people seem to like it, particularly our past glories.
I got asked by someone wanting to start his own forum if I'd like to help him and do the same and I saw no reason not to, so that's was how I first got into modding - because put simply, I don't like to take out of the pot without giving something back.
That forum didn't take off but the owner of The Wanderers forum asked me if I do the same for him and made me a mod but I didn't like how that forum was behind the scenes (people might have many opinions of me but I do try to treat everybody equally and fairly and if I have something to say about someone, I will say it to their face and not smile at them whilst stabbing them in the back - and that was basically how TW was at the time).
They quickly 'sacked' me and I ended up on an all but dead forum, started as a college project by a kid at the time, and simply continued to do match previews and stuff to amuse myself as much as anything. I again was made a mod.
Slowly but surely the forum took off and at one time it was even rivaling ww in daily post count!
That forum was Burnden Aces.
The nature of the beast that is social media is that some people believe the rules of the site don't apply to them and consequently over numerous sites including Nuts, I've crossed swords with a number of people - some of which have harboured a grudge for over ten years or more with me.
Hard to believe I know but it is sadly true.
One of them has gone so far as to attempt to hack my real life personal accounts - that's why I'm so sensative about keeping my anonymity.
So coming to the point of all this, yes football is just a game to me, BWFC has been my lifetimes passion but has never been my religion, I'm on the forums as a way of giving back for what I take from them, setting up and running a forum is easy if you have good people who know what they are doing (a special mention to Natasha, Biggie, BTID, Karly and Keegan - all who have put more into starting up and keeping the site going than I ever have), and it most certainly has been a pain in the arse at times, I've nearly walked away a couple of times, I'm not here to be abused or taken advantage of by no one.
I guess you could say I founded the site by accident, it was never my intention to create a forum but the young man at BA decided to take control of his site and do away with me as a mod, which left me at the mercy at those with grudges against me, so I had no option but to leave that site and when others found out several of them asked me to create a new forum and I linked Natasha with RT and combined we started Nuts, Biggie became our IT genius who set up this site and Keegan was one of our original mods. BTID and Karly came later and now do 99% of the work between them in keeping the site going.
So I don't see myself as BWFC 'fanatic' but rather someone who enjoys the game, wanted to keep in touch with it when I left Bolton - and when forums first emerged simply wanted to give something back to them as my way of saying thank you I guess.
I get nothing out of doing the site, in fact it has cost me money - but we aren't talking about anything like a fortune though. It has been fun for much of the time but has also been very much a pain to keep the site 'fun for all' as opposed to 'fun for one or two to play their games on irrespective of how it effects everybody else'.
Anyway That's how I've ended up doing what I do.
Bolton until I die, I guess!