Natasha Whittam wrote: Reebok_Rebel wrote:Nat, if you have nothing but trolling and wummery to add to the conversation - fuck off.
your funny most of the time but this is not a joking matter.
Fuck off yourself Rebel you attention seeking arsehole.
So let's look at the facts. You have a good job, bit of cash, nice car etc. Your ex lives on benefits so is probably living in a council flat or some equally rubbish place.
She sees you with your new girlfriend, probably splashing the cash a bit to impress her. Nice meal, days out etc. She probably can't afford to do these sorts of things. Plus she has to look after your kid 5 days a week.
I can see why she might be pissed off - and threatening to cut off access to your kid is her only way of hurting you - rightly or wrongly.
When two people decide to have a child it should be a long term commitment - not only to the kid but to each other. I don't care if two parents can't stand the sight of each other, they should stick together until their children are 18.
Dress it up all you like, but you're being selfish.
your trolling for a reaction. so il give you one...
you said... Fuck off yourself Rebel you attention seeking arsehole: if anybody is an attention seeking arsehole its you, your a man pretending to be a 'posh, rich, pretty woman.
So let's look at the facts. You have a good job, bit of cash, nice car etc. Your ex lives on benefits so is probably living in a council flat or some equally rubbish place: Not Exactly, yes I have a good job, but the ex actually has more money now than she did when she was working, I pay considerably above and beyond what the CSA would specify I pay, she also gets the usual benefits any single mother has. When she got her house, she had to buy, kitchen Equipment, a cooker, carpets, paint/wallpaper, a sofa, a TV, a bed and my sons bedroom furniture - I also paid for all this. she is not THAT bad off, only as bad off as somebody who earns the UK national average wage. I also buy most of my sons clothes and shoes. Im not a bum dad and never will be.
I can see why she might be pissed off - and threatening to cut off access to your kid is her only way of hurting you - rightly or wrongly.: true, but im sure you will agree, its wrong to use a child as a weapon?
When two people decide to have a child it should be a long term commitment - not only to the kid but to each other. I don't care if two parents can't stand the sight of each other, they should stick together until their children are 18.: im not the first, nor will I be the last father to split up with the mother of my child, sometimes things happen that determine staying together is not an option for them. As a virgin who has never had sex I wouldn't expect you to know. The split was as amicable as it could be given the circumstances - we also, at the time both agreed it was the best thing, both for us and our child. no child wants constantly arguing parents.
Dress it up all you like, but you're being selfish.: no im not, dads who don't give a fuck are selfish. I make a lot of sacrifices for my son and wouldn't want it any other way, its not his fault that his mum and dad don't get on anymore. Also, I feel setting her up with a house and the essentials is not a thing a selfish person would do.