Guys, When you take a lady out, do you open the door for her, if you have came in the same taxi/car do you open her car door for her getting in and the same getting out, do you open the restaurant/pub door and finally do you pull her chair out for her to sit down on before you sit down?
When it comes to ordering drinks whilst waiting of the food are you secretly keeping up a running total on what has been spend on you and what has been spent on her, same for dinner, or does the man do what was the done thing in the good old days and insist on paying it all or do you go halves? Guys that insist on paying for it all, is there an ulterior motive there and is it a ploy to try and get another notch on the bed post. Done get mad at me asking, but I get some girlfriends complaining that they wouldnt touch him with a barge pole, just looking into their knickers blah blah whereas other friends have said that the guy is soo lovely, he wouldnt let me put my hand my my pocket, he walked me to the front door and wants to see me again' Your getting totally opposites.
What about taking mobile phone calls? I make it clear from the start that I have a child so I might need to be got intouch of, would they mind if I left the phone on silent but facup so that if it would ring we would see it, it it wast my mum or the babysitter then I'd just push cancel. What is the point of accepting a call, you spend the next 10 - 15mins rambling away and your poor date sits mortified not knowing where to look. Has the date went so badly wrong that you just want to end it but dont know how so you hope she will. If thats the case get whoever is on the phone with you to pretend there's an emergency, at least she has a way out too then!! The same with constant text messages, its just wrong, leave it!!
The reason I ask this is when Im in a position that Im able to I like to pay my own way. Personally if a guy insisted on paying everything I would wonder what the hell they were up to. When Squidgy and I first got together we would be having arguments over receipts blah blah till we worked out a compromise.I do like the guy opening the door for me, and pulling back the seat, Ive never had someone do that for be before and the difference it makes, it just the kind little thoughs
I have no idea why I have always been like this, but im the kinda girl you get me a drink, i'll get you the next one. No matter how big or small I do like to pay my way. Someone saying to me 'dont worry about it, its on me' or 'money's no object get what you want and dont worry about the price tag' To me there is just something badly wrong in that. These guys may be totally fine, I just dont know.
We have plenty of men that will hopefully give their view, I hope Natasha gives her view although I suspect she's been wined and dined and never had to put her finger in her pocket and then there's Jane, Whats Janes take on it all? Will be good to hear a little on what everyone has got to say.
When it comes to ordering drinks whilst waiting of the food are you secretly keeping up a running total on what has been spend on you and what has been spent on her, same for dinner, or does the man do what was the done thing in the good old days and insist on paying it all or do you go halves? Guys that insist on paying for it all, is there an ulterior motive there and is it a ploy to try and get another notch on the bed post. Done get mad at me asking, but I get some girlfriends complaining that they wouldnt touch him with a barge pole, just looking into their knickers blah blah whereas other friends have said that the guy is soo lovely, he wouldnt let me put my hand my my pocket, he walked me to the front door and wants to see me again' Your getting totally opposites.
What about taking mobile phone calls? I make it clear from the start that I have a child so I might need to be got intouch of, would they mind if I left the phone on silent but facup so that if it would ring we would see it, it it wast my mum or the babysitter then I'd just push cancel. What is the point of accepting a call, you spend the next 10 - 15mins rambling away and your poor date sits mortified not knowing where to look. Has the date went so badly wrong that you just want to end it but dont know how so you hope she will. If thats the case get whoever is on the phone with you to pretend there's an emergency, at least she has a way out too then!! The same with constant text messages, its just wrong, leave it!!
The reason I ask this is when Im in a position that Im able to I like to pay my own way. Personally if a guy insisted on paying everything I would wonder what the hell they were up to. When Squidgy and I first got together we would be having arguments over receipts blah blah till we worked out a compromise.I do like the guy opening the door for me, and pulling back the seat, Ive never had someone do that for be before and the difference it makes, it just the kind little thoughs
I have no idea why I have always been like this, but im the kinda girl you get me a drink, i'll get you the next one. No matter how big or small I do like to pay my way. Someone saying to me 'dont worry about it, its on me' or 'money's no object get what you want and dont worry about the price tag' To me there is just something badly wrong in that. These guys may be totally fine, I just dont know.
We have plenty of men that will hopefully give their view, I hope Natasha gives her view although I suspect she's been wined and dined and never had to put her finger in her pocket and then there's Jane, Whats Janes take on it all? Will be good to hear a little on what everyone has got to say.