Can a man and a woman be just friends?

Part Two

Every woman I have been friends with I have had some sort of sexual contact with so no no no I always want to do them. Don't mention this to the wife though wouldn't do my bank account much good.

Angry Dad wrote:Every woman I have been friends with I have had some sort of sexual contact with so no no no I always want to do them. Don't mention this to the wife though wouldn't do my bank account much good.

Ive just emailed your wife...

no, I agree, every girl im 'friends' with I have had sexual contact with.

friends with benefits is the way forward!

be carful of the wife finding out, if you have kids your fucked... just had my letter from the CSA and the bastards want to give the bitch almost 300 quid a month!

No. When I met up with Hipster we couldn't keep our hands off each other.

Natasha Whittam wrote:No. When I met up with Hipster we couldn't keep our hands off each other.

This is a thread about men and women being friends. Not two gay blokes.

Bernard Dennis Park wrote:

This is a thread about men and women being friends. Not two gay blokes.

That hurts.

Natasha Whittam wrote:That hurts.

Funny though.

I'm tiring of your online bullying, I'm ringing Manchester police.

Die bitch!!!

Bernard Dennis Park wrote:Die bitch!!!

The Chief Constable has just got back to me, expect your door kicked down very soon.

I agree women seem to think they can be just friends with a guy whereas guys find it hard to be just friends. Why? Doesn't that show that men can fall for women from personality more than women falling for a guy from personality?

I think it's hard to be just friends with someone you like in terms of attracted to as it's hard just to be friends and for them to like and be interested in another guy.

Reebok_Rebel wrote:

Angry Dad wrote:Every woman I have been friends with I have had some sort of sexual contact with so no no no I always want to do them. Don't mention this to the wife though wouldn't do my bank account much good.

Ive just emailed your wife...

no, I agree, every girl im 'friends' with I have had sexual contact with.

friends with benefits is the way forward!

be carful of the wife finding out, if you have kids your fucked... just had my letter from the CSA and the bastards want to give the bitch almost 300 quid a month!

Nah she's got too much to loose, she wouldn't,t have the lifestyle she does now....I think

Also happens the other way, one woman frined whom i just saw as a friend actually told me on New Years Eve that she likes more than a friend. In fact, this last weekend I saw her again and she told me the same. I had to let her down due to the fcat that I am happily with another woman. But I did ask her as to why she didn't say anything sooner (i.e. 16 months sooner) - she did say and I can undrrstand why!!!!

I think the real answer here is that for someone who doesn't fancy someone you can be friends with that person, but if you do fancy them then you can't just be friends.

Michael Bolton wrote:I think the real answer here is that for someone who doesn't fancy someone you can be friends with that person, but if you do fancy them then you can't just be friends.

Top answer.

bwfc71 wrote:Also happens the other way, one woman frined whom i just saw as a friend actually told me on New Years Eve that she likes more than a friend. In fact, this last weekend I saw her again and she told me the same. I had to let her down due to the fcat that I am happily with another woman. But I did ask her as to why she didn't say anything sooner (i.e. 16 months sooner) - she did say and I can undrrstand why!!!!

You're a fanny magnet Chris. Good on ya.

Michael Bolton wrote:I think the real answer here is that for someone who doesn't fancy someone you can be friends with that person, but if you do fancy them then you can't just be friends.

This is clearly based on a real life experience MB, tell us more.

If she looks like a walrus then I can be friends with her.

Natasha Whittam wrote:

Michael Bolton wrote:I think the real answer here is that for someone who doesn't fancy someone you can be friends with that person, but if you do fancy them then you can't just be friends.

This is clearly based on a real life experience MB, tell us more.

Yes I guess it is. Last year I got on really well with this girl and I really loved chatting to her, she was fun, clever, interesting, easy going. But she was also really really pretty and I wanted to shag her senseless. After meeting up one day for a nice day in Durham and having a few drinks she said to me that she could tell I really liked her but that she wanted me to know she only wanted friendship. But I didn't want to be friends and then hear or see her interested and flirt with guys she liked, I would have been really sad.
I know it may appear bad that I decided not to bother knowing her any more after that but I know if any woman really liked some guy and he said he wasn't interested in her like that, not many woman would just be friends and watch him like other women.

Come on then Nat, lets hear your smart remark back.